Everyone has baggage

Man Luggage Bag Time Forward Piece Of BaggWho doesn’t have baggage? That’s the only question which pops into my mind whenever I ask a girl out on a date. Well, we all do have some sort of baggage of our past. A number people have done some disgraceful things which we are not proud of and definitely do not want our fans to be a part of it. It may be anything, like this guy I know, he’d been in relationships with ten distinct women and now when he eventually discovered his love, he does not need to share a picture of his past life with his girlfriend for a fear of losing her. But that doesn’t mean that she’s still the exact same person. Surely she must carry this until the last breath of her life.
When we hit our 20’s, we are too young to have any baggage. In fact, we should not be worried about our dates once we enter 20’s. Rather I should say young 20’s is the time once we start gathering it to the future. But when we enter 30’s, we’re full of it. We always tell our friends if we meet a new girl or boy, he or she is good but… To fill this but we have lots of explanations, for example, she’s beautiful but she had three boyfriends before. She’s perfect but she is a bit old for me.
She is sexy, but she isn’t a virgin.
She is attractive, but she has a massive butt.
Is it possible to ignore the last of the person and enjoy the present?
Well, for one thing, it is not impossible for sure.
Some people today take their past and move on while others repent about it forever. It’s just a learning phase where I have learned to not to feel any difference between happiness and sorrow.
This shows he doesn’t care about the past rather he enjoys the load of it.
Now the question arises, how can we manage not to let our past affect our future or present? Well, it is very simple yet complicated in a variety of ways. The simple method is to move past it and enjoy the current life scenario without any burden of the past. The ball is always in your court, it’s just that you need to accept and appreciate your own past. The moment we begin seeing baggage as avoidable as other things, the very existence of it’ll get extinct much like polar bears these days.
So the trick to a happy life lies in being casual with all the baggage you’ve been loading all of your life. Don’t be ashamed of it, try feeling joyful. It is worth it.

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